Victim of Communism

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  • There’s a big gulf between conveying the challenges of being a parent to your kid and just nagging them over bullshit.

    Part of transitioning to adulthood is recognizing the struggles your parents experience, both in raising you and in taking care of themselves independent of their own parents. Then you strive for independence - at least in part - because you recognize you can’t lean on your parents forever. And, finally, you might even decide to take care of children, because you want to pay the debt of childcare forward into the next generation.









  • “you owe me for giving birth to you and putting a roof over your head” is pretty far out

    Lots of parents throw this out half-joking. “I was in labor for eight hours, the least you can do is spend ten minutes cleaning your room” or some variation of it is a thing my mom would toss off on occasion.

    You owe it to the kid you decided to have to care for it as best you can

    We owe it to one another to be good in turn. The value of family is in building up the cycle of mutual aid. It’s never a one-way street.