Seriously. I’m asocial and depressed. Also, I like spending time with people and how they’re there for me when I need it, but I also have several mental illnesses and no empathy.
I’m not obligated to give you something back when you buy something for me. I want it, and you’re nice enough to get it for me. Why do I have to give you something back? I don’t know what you want. I can guess but I can’t really tune into other people that well.
And when people ask how I am, I just say “Fine”. Why do I have to ask how they are? They never told me to ask how they are, they asked how I was. Also, what’s so wrong with “Nothing/Nun” when they ask what I did? Genuinely, I didn’t do much, there’s nothing to talk about.
It also feels easier to talk to men because they don’t seem to compete with me or expect much from me, how can I fix that so I can talk to my own gender?
In most cases for me its not something asked for. Its an opportune thing where you see something that you know would really help someone and is such a good deal or just works. I mean you have to know people and about their lives to do it and be able to internalize who they are as if you where them.
You’re getting too far in; @[email protected] must first figure out and then remember (or use a log to track) those people’s struggles. Then this sort of connection can start to be made.