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  • The Mac one could be a lot more realistic:

    “Mac OS Yellowstone is available for your Mac, and will update tonight.”

    “Mac OS did not update last night because you left some windows open.”

    “Mac OS will update tonight, but you must enter your fingerprint and password to make it happen.”

    “Mac OS did not update last night because you didn’t enter your password again at 2AM and we weren’t sure if you really meant it”



  • You’re making a good argument that we should partially socialize the systems needed to support life, like agriculture, and healthcare, but I would go further and include housing and a few other things.

    At that point, we are talking about a strong welfare state.

    So the modern solution to all this was invented like, 90 years ago by FDR.

    We need another FDR.

















  • well… therapy absolutely helps you figure out your needs as an autistic person (complete with a real diagnosis) and helps you develop safe coping strategies for this and being queer in a hostile place.

    A good should help you build a real support system and protect your self-identity from harmful family, including forming a plan to leave them. And learning to love yourself, awkward as you may think you are.

    I guess I see a lot of things in your post that a therapist could and should help with. I’m wondering if you had good ones, and what they were doing with you in that time.

    Just as you wouldn’t go to a surgeon or dentist and let them work without a treatment plan, you should agree on your goals and the modalities a therapist intends to use to get you there, at the beginning. And you can refer back to this to see if you’re making progress or not.

    Unfortunately like all healthcare now, you often have to research and become your own self advocate first. You should fire a therapist long before you spend thousands and years doing nothing. Bad therapists are out there, a lot of them. But good therapists can move mountains.