Carighan Maconar

The strength of life to face oneself has been made manifest. The persona Carighan has appeared.

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  • I wouldn’t say it’s “not up to the challenge” insomuch that like when you want to convince someone to not use Chrome, you’re running into the problem that you have to create a framework under which the amount of problem Chrome can be can actually be measured/registered.

    People always assume “Yeah but the average user doesn’t care”, but never truly read that line and realize what it implies.

    It’s not that my mum opens Chrome, sees that it’s 74/100 on the problematic-software-you-shouldn’t-use-scale, and then decided to use it anyways.
    She opens it. That’s it. It ends there.

    There is no “This is a 74/100 problem”.
    There is no problematic-software-you-shouldn’t-use-scale.
    There is no scale.
    There isn’t even the conceptual idea for it, and hence no reason or impetus to ever internally have such a scale.

    And now comes an important question: Why? Or rather, why not?

    And the answer is both easier and also impossibly harder than most of us trying to convince others would want to accept: Because it doesn’t matter.
    To my mum, she couldn’t give a flying fuck what others think about Chrome, she wants to open a web page. She has actual problems in her actual life, she doesn’t care a rat’s arse what the tiny computer she looks up the weather and contacts her kids on does to allow her to do that internally. She’s worried about her health, about her colon surgery healing or about her mum (my grandma is 93) having fallen down.












  • Hrm so I searched around that site a bit, and I genuinely cannot find them ever discussing that. Maybe it’s in some of the videos (a very poor choice of design for something that supposedly is about more inclusive communication) but mostly it seems to be seminares and workshops.

    But just to ask the general question, I still need to make a negative assessment, yes? I still say “worst”, not “++ungood”. So I would also call something “stupid”, not “unsmart”?
    Intuitively just from the title, of course nonviolent communication ought to be a thing, but that’s distinct from a discussion as to whether all uses of a word should take in account all other uses of the same word, no? E.g. stupid person vs stupid move, or rape as a crime vs rape as a plant.






  • So as s simple example from the system I work with:

    Customers can set rolling validities for alerts, e.g., Monday 8-10.

    If a customer from a place which currently has DST puts in 8-10 say, CEST, in their browser (6-8 UTC) then they intuitively expect this to still be 8-10 their local time (7-9 UTC) when later winter time rolls around.

    But, all data checked for alerts comes in in UTC and different users editing these validities are from different countries, timezones and summer time preferences.

    Gets funky really quickly. Especially because the evaluation has to account for the DST shift essentially on a per-recipient DST-when-configured vs DST-when-evaluated basis.
    (This is genuinely a simple example, it gets worse 😁)