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Cake day: September 26th, 2026

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  • I had this interaction once.

    1. Friend 1 politely danced around “Yeah years ago I kinda thought you were bit of a jerk”
    2. Me “Oh I don’t blame you I was kind of an ass & had some maturing to do”
    3. The entire rest of the group, at once, “Oh yeah you were a major asshole” / “That’s why I didn’t talk to you for a while” / “Yeah no shit” / etc.

    Anyways I started declining their invitations from then on.



  • If they spent 5 minutes stating all the issues they’re having and then asked about my relationship - I wouldn’t look at them like an alien and start talking about great my partner is.

    I would probably mention something inoffensive that annoyed me or talk about something going to happen (“We’re headed to LA in a few weeks”) just to change the subject. I certainly wouldn’t start stating all the great things about my partner because that’s just social incompetence in that context.








  • Reddit is killing itself. It really didn’t have to do anything but let X & Insta & TikTok feed into it. It has a better structure for daily use that isn’t quite so toxic.

    But instead they are letting Mods go crazy, Admin-bots that blow up your account with no explanation, user-bots that spam rage bait & other low effort LLM slop, and so on. It’s a dying platform that should be thriving. The first place people find after searching “Less toxic Reddit” is fediverse, so of course it’s growing.