Most snakes are like fish. You don’t have them to snuggle, just to appreciate from nearby. Many, even most, can be handled perfectly safely, but it’s not about bonding with them like a mammal. They don’t want to kill you. That’s cats. Snakes just want you to leave the mouse and go.
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Sunsofold@lemmings.worldto Games@lemmy.world•(PC) Chill farming games (non-Anime)?English4·5 days agoFarming Simulator 25 - realistic modern farming
Coral island - chill life sim
Graveyard keeper - story with lots of farming and crafting sim elements
some Minecraft modpacks are farming focused
Ranch Sim - farming/hunting/homesteading mix
Farming Dynasty - euro farming sim
Garden Life - chill, grow flowers, decorate your garden, etc.
Hard to say where the line is for ‘looking like anime’ but for things that are a bit stylized but not anime styled exactly, there’s also Staxel, the My Time At __ series, and some others.
Sunsofold@lemmings.worldto Gaming@lemmy.world•What is your personal favorite multiplayer game and what is it's fatal flaw?English1·6 days agoOverwatch, and the flaw is everything they ruined it with in almost every update since 20172018. I loved how tactical and strategic it was for a shooter, and the only problems it had were the turrets. Everything they have done has been to make it less strategic and more lobotomized and left click focused.
Making intentions known is necessary. Flirting is just one of the preocesses by which intention is established. In that way, it is not strictly necessary, in the same way that cake is not necessary, but food is.
Flirting is a process which intentionally leaves ambiguity because it lets people avoid embarrassment. Being rejected, in many cultures, is embarrassing. By attempting flirting, a person can show interest indirectly, and the other person can show interest in return or show disinterest with quiet cues that let the instigator pull back without having to do something as vulnerable as explicitly stating intentions or experience embarrassment at being directly rejected.
Flirting, like anything else, can also be used as a display of quality, the verbal/intellectual equivalent of peacock feather displays.
How necessary these elements are is entirely contextual. Some partners despise the pretense of it. Others view it as incredibly fun. Some are deeply embarassed by the prospect of rejection. Some are not bothered by it at all.
Sunsofold@lemmings.worldto memes@lemmy.world•I also heard the term "refug.ee" beforeEnglish3·13 days agoWhen reddit did the nonsense with the API I saw the term reddfugee.
Sunsofold@lemmings.worldto Fuck Cars@lemmy.world•Carbrain culture is sitting in your car for 20 minutes instead of getting out and just walking into the restaurant.English17·13 days agoEveryone behind the silver car at the parking lot entrance is illegally blocking the road. Regardless of the car culture problem or OP’s disingenuous use of a CoViD era image out of context, those people needed to go away. If you can’t get your coffee without parking in the street, you don’t get coffee at that location at that time. Safety is more important than someone getting their sugar/caffeine fix.
Asking a question and answering it in the next sentence… is there a word for that?
Don’t forget the third thing ads tell you: ‘Our product is, at best, no better than our competitors’, and quite possibly much worse, otherwise we wouldn’t have to spend so much on controlling our reputation.’
Sunsofold@lemmings.worldto Showerthoughts@lemmy.world•The balance of security and privacy sounds weird when privacy IS security.English15·13 days agoNever heard of those two being opposed.
The trade-off of security is widely known to be convenience, not privacy.
Sunsofold@lemmings.worldto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What do you think the solution to selling progressive politics to young men is ?English3·14 days agoIt all has meaning. I used high density language because I didn’t want to spend a long time on the response, which I admit does require a certain level of experience with the concepts to be readable. Was there something you’d like me to expand into simpler language to make it clearer for you?
Sunsofold@lemmings.worldto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Why is U2 considered "grunge?"English1·14 days agoPossibly the same way Fallout Boy and System of a down can be grouped. There is a phenomenon in music ‘similarity’ systems (remember Pandora?) that, because the process of actually analyzing music and classifying it is work, tries to offload the work to elsewhere, and often what really happens is things get grouped not by qualitative similarities like mood, rhythmic complexity, tone etc. but by the quantitative and easy ‘these two were liked by the same group of people, aged X~Y, so they must be similar.’
Sunsofold@lemmings.worldto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What do you think the solution to selling progressive politics to young men is ?English15·14 days agoYoung men are not some new phenomenon. Their desire, in a word, is agency.
As the world has grown more interconnected, the world has become more visible. This has created a crippling awareness of their place in the grand scheme. Nietzsche’s void has opened beneath them and, in the ignorance expected of youth, they grasp at what is presented to them. Selling hope to the desperate, even false hope, is lucrative, so there is no shortage of hucksters and charlatans offering it to them.
The ultimate problem is that there is no pleasant truth. When faced with the existential horror of being, the truth doesn’t help. You cannot focus on learning to be a better version of yourself when facing raw terror. A comforting lie will get you to tomorrow. Truth will send you to the long, dark night.
So, when offered a pretense of agency, in almost any form, they take it. Some pretend that the problem is simply women. Some say it’s other ‘races.’ Some say it’s this or that ideology, whether economic, social, sexual, psychological, or anything else. They all just want to feel like they can make a difference, just like everyone else.
Sunsofold@lemmings.worldto Games@lemmy.world•What are your favorite Tactical RPGs?English4·16 days agoFor some reason I read Tactical Breach Wizards and thought of Sexy Battle Wizards, and I just thought, that’s a cool recommendation but why here?
Psst I think it might be a joke about how you put your comment in quotation marks.
There is a slight difference there. You don’t ask the first two because social norms have pressured those groups to focus on those elements to unhealthy levels, so asking is, on a certain level, disrupting the peace of the other person by touching a sensitive area. The third is not. The third is poking your own peace because whether they have an extreme loyalty to one or a nuanced understanding of why different ones are better suited to different use cases, you are about to be talked at for an hour about it.
You don’t actually have to converse. I get by with ‘Hei’ and ‘Takk’ on most transactions, and sometimes just with a nod or two. You can go through the whole process without ever even looking up from your phone if you like.
And it doesn’t really go any faster. You still have to scan the same stuff, probably no faster than someone who has experience doing it every day as their job. You have to bag it, which sometimes can be done by a bagger in a normal lane, so parallelism grants possible speed there. The machines also have lag, sometimes not letting you scan your next item until the last one has nicely settled on the bagging scale. And if you want to buy an age-restricted item, or if there’s anything that doesn’t go perfectly, you have to wait for the human to come over and handle it anyway, which can be a long or a short wait, but still dead time.
Worst of all, though, is the machine talking at me. If you hate a cashier talking to you I don’t know how you can tolerate a machine making you listen to it explain how to do the painfully obvious, while simultaneously preventing you from doing the thing you aren’t being paid to do. That part alone generally is going to make it slower than a normal cashier.
Sunsofold@lemmings.worldto Technology@lemmy.world•For All That Is Good About Humankind, Ban SmartphonesEnglish1·20 days agoBattling anything is built of two parts, making it immoral, and making it illegal. Making it illegal makes it easier to argue that it’s immoral, because many people take cues for their morality from legality, but if you want to keep it illegal you have to maintain the cultural belief in its immorality. Each reinforces the other.
I’ll start using self-checkout when they start paying me to work at their store as a cashier, though not if they’re going to have cameras showing me myself doing it. That costs extra.
Expect violence.