Me. Before I transitioned, and in my early days of transition, sure, I’d have made that choice if it were available to me. But now, years in? Fuck no. I don’t want to be cis.
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Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zonetoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.world•a harry potter fan's guide to navigating pride monthEnglish4·19 days agoWhat is going on with your moral compass that you believe that sometimes, funding bigots doesn’t make you a shitty person, yet also lets you believe that disagreeing with you on that issue topic is enough to qualify someone as a shitty person?
If you can make an exception for people funding Rowling, you can make space for them disagreeing with you, without pretending that they’re the problem
Apologies if this question comes off as insulting, but just to confirm, if you’re shooting manual, when you adjust the ISO to keep the exposure value the same right? The photo you’ve got there looks slightly underexposed to me
That being said, assuming you are keeping the exposure value equal, then conventional wisdom says that you get slightly less contrast (including colour contrast) with a wide open aperture. So if you set the ISO faster, and don’t change your shutter speed, your aperture will be smaller, and you should be getting more colour contrast.
On top of that, each lens has its own “sweet spot” where it gives you the best image quality (sharpness, contrast, saturation etc) generally but not always somewhere around f/8.
So if you haven’t already, true adjusting your ISO to 160, and getting your aperture as close to f/8 as you can, and adjust the shutter speed to achieve that.
Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•how do i explain “it’s raining” to my boyfriend?9·27 days agoIt sounds like a similar situation I had learning Spanish. In english, I’d say “It’s hot”. In Spanish, that’s “Hace calor”, which translated literally means “makes heat”. And it was strange to me because I wanted to know what was meant to be making this heat
Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Fediverse@lemmy.world•lemm.ee is shutting down at the end of this monthEnglish21·27 days agothis is why lemmy will never beat corporate owned services
Which famously, never shut down and take their content with them :P
Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Fediverse@lemmy.world•lemm.ee is shutting down at the end of this monthEnglish17·27 days agoYou create the community on another instance. You update the lemm.ee version with a sticky post and sidebar edit to let people know the new location. Do that before lemm.ee closes down, and even people that find the lemm.ee version of the group after the instance is gone will still be able to find your new location
Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto [Migrated, see pinned post] Casual Conversation @lemm.ee•Do you have any piercings or tattoos?English3·28 days agoMultiple tattoos! I used to have multiple piercings as well, but they all ultimately rejected, so now I have none
Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Fediverse@lemmy.world•Migrating communities in the wake of the lemm.ee shutdownEnglish12·28 days agoWell, the managed communities will pin posts and update their descriptions before the shut down happens, and those details will federate to every instance with users that subscribe to the communities.
Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto RPG@lemmy.ml•How do you keep your players from reading published adventures online?English13·29 days agoBy setting expectations.
You’re all adults, and you’re all here to have fun. If you go and read the adventures and walk through everything with no surprises or challenges, then as the DM, I’m not having fun, and won’t keep doing it. If you steal the limelight from other players with your “secret knowledge”, they’re not going to have fun.
So if you’re going to read it, great, but use the power wisely, so as to not undermine the spirit of the game.
Do you need to be an activist? Absolutely not. You have a chance to live on your own terms in a world that made that really hard. You don’t owe it anything.
That being said… Visibility makes a huge difference, and it’s super important that some vulnerable folk are visible and loud. But remember, they’re the ones putting themselves on the line, so that in the future, it won’t be as bad for those that follow, and that needs to be respected.
For me, being trans was always just a medical issue
This isn’t helpful. Whether you see it that way or not, being trans is not “just a medical issue”. The fact that you were able to live your life as if it were, gives you a position of relative privilege that most trans people don’t share. The truth is, if you get publicly outed one day, it won’t just be a medical issue for you either. So whilst you don’t have to be an activist, you shouldn’t be downplaying the reality that other trans folk do have to face, and honestly, you shouldn’t be pretending to yourself that you are immune to them either.
Live your life on your own terms, and do so without guilt. But even if it’s just in the privacy of your own thoughts, make sure you build your visible peers up rather than mentally separating yourself from them
Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Fediverse@lemmy.world•TubeFree is a new Peertube by BT FreeEnglish4·30 days agoMost people don’t start making videos to make money. In the early Tube days there was no money.
Absolutely. I’m one of them. But there’s a lot of peertube instances that serve that need.
The OP was talking about creating a moderated instance, with high production quality requirements for members, with the possibility of charging for extra upload capacity etc. And that narrows the field down to people who either make their living from producing video content, or want to make their living from producing video content. That’s the group I was talking about
PeerTube only has 1 less avenue for monetization than YT, among dozens.
Absolutely, but the one its missing is a major source of income for most professionals and semi professionals who make their living from video content. And folk who rely on YouTube advertising aren’t just going to be able to drop YouTube for Peertube whilst keeping a consistent income stream. Which means the OP (and the OP specifically, not peertube in general) will need to make space for allowing those users to exist in a way that encourages them to move to Peertube, without cutting off the income they currently make from centralised corporate platforms.
My partner and I run a peertube instance out of our own pockets, and we make videos and host other folk making videos, without caring about their quality or experience. For us, it’s about giving folk voices. But I wasn’t talking about peertube in general, or folk like myself, I was addressing the OPs situation
The one thing I’ve been thinking about (but haven’t yet done) is using it for the Insta 360 camera app (an app for editing/exporting videos from 360 panoramic cameras). It’s actually more feature rich than the desktop version, which doesn’t have a linux version in any case, so using it to quickly reframe my videos and export them to something non proprietary would be a whole lot easier…
Maybe I’ll try and get that working today…
Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Fediverse@lemmy.world•TubeFree is a new Peertube by BT FreeEnglish20·30 days agoAt the moment, its challenging for creators to generate income from Peertube. In theory, the avenue they have is through patreons and the like, but in practice, peertube doesn’t yet have the volume of users to make that work. And as a result, it’s going to be hard to use any kind of “premium/paid” tier service, simply because there won’t be many takers.
In my mind, right now, if you’re trying to attract creators, you’re going to need to reduce as many barriers as you can for them to move over. That may mean co-existing accounts on bigtech platforms and on peertube, and in terms of helping with your running costs, voluntary donations are the best way of doing it for now, until peertube gets a larger volume of users.
Either way, we spun up our own peertube instance a few weeks ago too, so welcome to the vidiverse :)
Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto [Migrated, see pinned post] Casual Conversation @lemm.ee•Roll call.... what country are you from?English7·1 month agoAustralia
Would like to end up in Argentina or Uruguay though!
Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•Should Lemmy consider potentially implementing a "Self-Harm and Suicide Concern" reporting feature similar to Reddit's?19·1 month agoThe best help you can give someone in distress is hearing them, whilst you redirect them to a place that can help with empathy and compassion.
Any form of automated message comes across as the exact opposite of empathy and compassion.
In addition, speaking as the admin of a trans and queer community, I don’t have any special tools or abilities to help people. Sending the report to me doesn’t let me help them, because they’re almost certainly not in my country, and I don’t have any special access that enables me to contact them or reach out to them. The tool I do have, is the instance itself that we host, that allows people to connect with their community and their peers, that allows them to struggle, and that shuts down anyone who would try and add to the hurt of someone on the edge.
Which is to say, I don’t think a reddit style feature has a place here. It will let people think they’re helping, without actually doing so, as well as providing a new vector for abuse (though that would be less of an issue than on reddit). In theory, an automated list of resources that could be called on could be useful, but again, if someone is struggling, they need to feel heard, and automated replies can come across as dispassionate and uncaring.
Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Peersuite p2p encrypted discord alternativeEnglish6·1 month agoThank you! I’ll be watching with great interest! Lots of potential :)
Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Peersuite p2p encrypted discord alternativeEnglish19·1 month agoA couple of questions. If I was trying to keep a consistent workspace to build a community around, would it be persistent after the host logs off, and are their tools to protect it from trolls etc who discover it a workspace?
It means you won’t end up with dual boot breaking one of your installs, you won’t accidentally overwrite anything etc.
Entirely optional, but if you were already planning on removing it anyway, it’s not really any extra work
If you’ve got two slots and a modern motherboard, you can do the same thing but keep both m.2 devices installed. If you really want to be sure, take out the windows device, install Linux on the second, and then put the windows device back in. You’ll be able to swap back to windows if needed that way without swapping things out
Not who you’re asking, but I wouldn’t have wanted to be born cis