• Ninja876@lemmy.world
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    6 days ago

    Wow thats a lot to deal with and take in.

    Take some comfort as a guy that has dated Asian Americans, Mainland Chinese, Japanese, and Koreans they are all a pain in the ass like the rest. Japanese especially. That whole subservient this is a myth in my experience, not that I was looking for that.

    The grass isn’t always greener, you just haven’t seen the other side.

    Now the Japanese girl was stupid rich. So that might have been a factor. Every stupid rich girl I have dated is always a total nightmare.

    • altphoto@lemmy.today
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      5 days ago

      Well it’s been 25 years of this. It’s fine. The cultural differences are important though. But if you let her do her thing you’ll learn. I think men are usually like this. We generally look for an adventure and culture is part of that. Ot might be our last name officially but it’s all about the mother’s DNA. That’s the blood lineage. So we’re just sort of there to take it all in and do what men do… Get rid of the mice, the cats, the spiders or whatever. Life is good.