• Taleya@aussie.zone
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    Sounds like his gathering, arranged by him, with his friends.

    He can prep it.

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      I’ve literally done this to my husband.

      He didn’t prep shit and, since everyone is sexist, blamed me.

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    My take is that his single answer applies to them all, thusly:

    6 people are coming 6 of them are vegetarian 6 is when they are coming.

    He was conserving bandwidth.

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    1 day ago

    I feel like whenever someone posts a reasonably relatable marriage meme on Lemmy, all the terminally single people show up to demonstrate exactly why no one will love them.

    • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      laughs in autist

      Normies be setting the social/communication norms they themselves can’t reliably comprehend, and then call the ensuing confusion that they have normalized relatable.

      Sure, ok then, have fun with your inability to recognize simple patterns.

      I’ll stick to my autist friends, paramours, local wives with cuck husbands who are emotionally distant, and the occasional male twunk, ahhahahah!

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        Hubs and I are ND asF and have all kinds of weird sex including nonmonogamy at one point. I’m still the husband in this meme most of the time, but sometimes he’s the husband in this meme. If you think you never miscommunicate, odds are you’re a REALLY bad communicator.

        • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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          Well so, for 1, ND is more broad that just autist.

          For 2… did I say or imply I don’t think I ever miscommunicate?

          For 3, my career was literally to communicate complex technical concepts and data to people without complex technical knowledge.

          I don’t understand how this is hard; hubbie here is responding sequentially, and is typing more slowly than wifey.

          This isn’t bad communication, its very easy to understand. Not everyone can type so fast, in every situation.

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            by choice, right…

            Listen, moddo got peeved last time one of you adamantly outted yourselves. So lets just let drop it, I’m not going to argue with your hyperfixation to convince yourself.

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      The comments here are pretty mild. Lemmy’s usually fine with it as long as it’s “husband bad” and not “wife bad”.

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    If you ask multiple questions in one phrase my brain can’t handle it sorry

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      Honest question, if I have to ask for 3 pieces of information, would it help if I sent it in 3 messages?

      Message 1: how many people are coming to dinner?

      Message 2: are any vegetarian?

      Message 3: what time are they arriving?

      Personally I would prefer the 1 message with 3 questions vs the 3 messages with 1 question each(many messages in short time make me think something is wrong and urgent), what’s your preference?

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        Nah for me 1 message is where it’s at, I was just joking. I like it when people send over one message with everything they need to tell or ask so I can respond without going into a back and forward, ESPECIALLY if I’m busy with work but not necessarily.

        I also ask multiple things in one message but people never ever take the time to respond to all of them… Fucking ever, it pisses me off lol, because I put effort into writing a coherent message then they just discard it most of the time :-/

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      I’ve noticed that with my partner with ADHD, and also my sister with ADHD. Neither can easily deal with multiple topics in one message. Curious.

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    Getting a bunch of questions at once is kind of annoying cus it requires more typing. Id use csv (6,3,7p), but then thatll just require explaining!

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      Didn’t your teacher make you restate the question on your answer starting in like 2nd grade? That would solve the problem. Nobody pays per letter in text messages anymore.

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      Interesting. I prefer all the questions at one so I don’t have to send multiple times. Id have responded to this one like, “6ppl, 2veg, 19:00, thanks!”

      To me it’s way more annoying when someone sends a series of questions as in typing an answer, and asks a follow up question between or after the chain of questions.

      Ie

      A: How many people are coming?

      A: How many are vegetarian?

      B: 6 people

      A: what time are they coming?

      B: 2 are vegetarian?

      A: wait do you mean six people are coming or did people are vegetarian?

      B: typing…

      A: oh ok I see nvm. So what time are they coming?

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    she said “couple of questions” but she asked 3. So the last one doesn’t count. Also, she married him, pretty sure this isn’t a new trait of him

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      “Couple of” colloquially means “a small number of”. She married him and is now poking mild fun at him, not threatening divorce.

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    obviously he adjusted his communication to be exactly as precise as her “hints” all day, she then intentionally reframed the situation to get support for “beeing innocent” while really beeing the one who has created the situation in the first place. standard gf behavoir, when the context is missing in her story, it is likely missing on purpose to hide exactly how she created the situation.

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      quite obvious indeed. I too like to extrapolate wildly speculative situations and motives from a likely fake twittter screenshot

      EDIT: it’s actually astounding how you managed to construct an entire cinematic universe around this tweet just to somehow shift the blame to the woman, despite the lack of literally any context.

      Reddit truly keeps living on on this platform