• Dagwood222@lemm.ee
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    7 hours ago

    First thing you learn in swimming rescue.

    If you are trying to help a drowning victim and they grab on to you, push yourself deeper underwater. The victim will let go and keep trying to get to the air.

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      2 hours ago

      In lifeguard training I was unironically told I might have to punch someone in the face to snap them out of it and ensure we don’t both drown lol

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      3 hours ago

      Interesting, first thing we learned was to try to knee them in the groin to make them let go.

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    8 hours ago

    The issue presented is a complex one. For anyone else stumbling across this, I have an optimal solution after having lived through this: delete your Instagram account. This solution is a net positive for everyone.

  • NielsBohron@lemmy.world
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    14 hours ago

    Plot twist: the therapist was just trying to make the patient feel more empowered and seen by agreeing to confront her spouse