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I once dated a girl for a while but we stopped dating because she was just too BPD for me to handle. The passion & sex were great, but the mood swings, lies, paranoia, etc. were just too much.
We remained friends though for a very long time. Went our separate ways but were always in touch. Eventually she got into drugs & dating real bad dudes, and I tried to get her to get a grip and stop the drugs & ruining her life. She ghosted me. Eventually she responded (or rather her boyfriend did) that she was in a psych ward for rehab. Our friendship resumed when she got out.
A year later she died. I met her family at the funeral, befriended them. One day I mentioned her psych ward stay. Her mom said she was never in a psych ward. She pulled up texts on her phone from the date range when she allegedly was in the ward.
The whole thing was a sham. She told me she was in the psych ward / rehab to get me off her back. The txt from her bf was just her.
I miss my friend dearly, but finding that out broke my heart.
I’m sorry she couldn’t accept your help. You have to forgive yourself. Some people cannot be saved.
“I can fix her”?
She can break me.
Twice this year, it’s a him but yes. They make borderline in boys too.
Let him go. Folks all the way on bpd bullshit just leave you wrecked until you decide to stay away. Maybe he’ll get better, I’ve had respected friends and partners who did, but it ain’t worth waiting for and being broken over and over in the meantime
Both are fun. Then we can do a crazy ex girlfriend off.
(I will win)
Challenge accepted.
Not you dear.
Woo! I win!
P.S. Sorry about your trauma.
Sorry, no, compassion is a trigger for me.
In that case,
San diego is a trigger for me.
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aww, you with in a cute psychiatric care
Lol, this literally happened to me once.
Long story short, a girl I knew but always figured was way out of my league expressed interest in me. We quickly started dating, I thought I was the luckiest guy in the world. A few weeks go by and she just ghosts me. Nothing for weeks, I was going nuts. Finally I get a message from her, she had checked herself into the psych ward, and wound up hooking up with one of the staff while she was there.
Dodged a real one there…
Hooking up with one of the staff? Yikes
I don’t deny that you may have dodged a bullet, but I feel like the staff of a psych ward hooking up with patients is hella fucked up. Even if both people are adults, I think consent in that context is pretty dubious.
wholeheartedly agree. I was but 19 years old though and less wise in the ways of the world. I occasionally try to look her up but have had no luck, I really hope she turned out ok. Been decades though.
From what I heard its super common for psych ward staff to be doing patients. And yeah it can’t be very helpful in their situation…
She’s probably going to need a good lay after that one.
As if she didn’t get laid in the psych ward.
There’s not generally a bounty of desirable dick in the psych ward, trust me
In my experience the patient’s desire is not a factor.
Some women do things together in their rooms between check-ins though.
Orderlies don’t count. It’s like being on vacation.
Maybe but she’ll need one after too.
Girls with grippy socks give the best blowjobs.
Men love BPD chicks because we’ll be obsessed with them and could suck the paint off a trailer hitch but they act all shocked when they realize they need Steve Irwin level animal handling skill to not get their face chewed off and that they might just get speared to death anyway. My guy, do you want to live life on the edge or not?
Oh, yeah definitely. My first love had BDP and I’m still riding scars from those 5 years. Best head tho.
live on the edge? like edging? the sigma male grindset reference?!?!
living on the edge, a place you can easily fall to your death, but it is exhilarating to be there
Girls with grippy socks give the best
blowjobsfootjobs.
I got phone time when I was in the psychiatric hospital…
Yeah, I just had my phone the whole time. It turns out that completely cutting people off from their support network doesn’t promote mental wellbeing.
I didn’t :(
I’m sorry -_-
Hi, sorry -_- , I’m dad.
It’s Apsalar now
How about not putting your dick in crazy?
crazy people need dick too
But do they deserve dick, is the question.
Wow, bigot.
One of the medical clinic nurses at the state Psych hospital I worked at would give any patient a condom if they asked and not tell anyone. Like. It was known to administration and it was one of her official responsibilities to do so, but she would not reveal who she gave them to or keep any records. We would absolutely stop them if we caught them but you can’t always catch people before they make a wholeass new person.
Now I’m imagining being conceived between two psych ward patients and I’m like… really trying not to sound judgemental, but that’s not great odds for the baby both in terms of a stable and nurturing environment growing up, and a genetic predisposition towards mental instability later in life.
how can you know the child won’t grow up to enjoy the illness?
My comment was in no way about who deserves to procreate, but who gets to have the fun of the process.
There’s also the question of who has been naughty and needs to be taught a lesson.
Stfu mentally ill people deserve affection as much as anyone.
As a mentally ill dude I would like to trade the disgusting affection for a 1991 Fiat Polski.
what color?
Rusty red
hell yeah
I don’t think you understand the demographics of a psych ward. When I went (technically a pediatric one) it was 50% people who self harm and got caught, 30% people who are depressed and it got too bad, 10% overdoses, and only 10% ‘crazy’ people
a lot game from disadvantaged backgrounds and just didn’t have the best start with abusive parents and shit and take it out on themselves. They just need stability and care, care that a significant other could give.
I guess I could be put into this category too.the ‘crazy’ people were chill, they just talked to themselves and saw stuff sometimes. They’re not like… mean.
the ‘crazy’ people that you are probably thinking of aren’t the ones who go to the psych ward. They say that they’re normal and blame others for their issues. They’re the ones who don’t want to be associated with people with depression and bipolar syndrome so they don’t seek treatment for it and get WAY worse than if they went to therapy instead of drugs.
It’s also worth noting that the ‘crazy’ people you’re thinking of aren’t past saving. They need help too. They probably started off with a bad background and weren’t taught how to take accountability and coping techniques. It’s just really, REALLY difficult to admit you need help and to go through the process of getting it.
People do recover and should be given assistance, assistance that the American system doesn’t give.
Thanks for the perspective
Counter point: have you ever put your dick in crazy? Its awesome.
They do fuck pretty good. It’s like holding a tiger by the tail. In one instance the tiger is sure to like it. Right?
I mean you’re right if you vibe with similar crazy but that withdrawal and collateral damage…ouch.
-even if you don’t vibe it’s going to be amazing
You can get keen and competent without them being crazy
Yeah but not nearly as hot though
Look at you, trying to force “common sense” into people. How “admirable”.
Have you tried it?
This is how you become the ghost.
There are enough for everyone: https://cagedladies.com/
A lot of normal women who got into trouble, but also some crazy ones.
Fucking sliding doors moment right here, reading this comment is the proximate cause of my eventual murder and dismemberment by a big tiddy jailbird gf.
Dude I fucking hate that movie. I’m in the (personal, not global. I know we’re all in the global bad universe) bad universe and I do not like thinking about the good one
Many years ago I responded to one of these inmate pen-pal things. I did it because Susan Smith, the woman who pushed her car into a lake with her small kids in it, was one of the people on the pen-pal list. I wrote a letter, but got a boiler plate response from the prison about her no longer being on the pen-pal project due to an over whelming response.
I remember the profile she had though, discussing how she loved rainbows, and mini mouse
Now thats a woman who doesnt deserve my conjical visits
Considering the US penal system, I’d risk many are in for ridiculous things.
Definitely. But a while ago, when I first saw this site in a post, I found one young woman who had in her bio that she was very submissive and looking for a daddy. When I looked her up, I found out that she was doing 8 years or so for sexually abusing a 12 year old girl. That’s what I mean when I say that there are some crazy-ass bitches on that site.
Yikes! That’s a stopper.
Started dating a girl with bpd and have never been so excited yet so confused, my life is fucked now i think but she’s super hot so whatever
She just called me to say she loves me then she called me an asshole and hung up
thanks for the update
Time to put a ring on it
If she’s 27 do u think it’s possible she outgrows this lol
Convince her to go to DBT if she hasn’t yet, it makes a hell of a difference
Psych ward is always best enjoyed together. Good for You.
Hey baby, can I interest you an a folie à deux? 😉
God that movie sucked ass.
I know, and it ruined a perfectly good psychoanalytical term, too.
I kind of want to watch it, but I’d have to watch the original Joker first.
Original is decent, but won’t live up to the hype. The second… just … don’t.
Crazy?
I was crazy once.
They locked me in a room.
A rubber room!
A rubber room with rats!
Rats make me crazy!
Crazy?
I was crazy once.
Don’t bother. She’s already perfect.
